Kids Table Décor, Activities and Mocktails for the Holidays

Close your eyes and picture your family around the Thanksgiving table. Got it? Good. Now — this will be hard, but stay with us — imagine what it would feel like to have an adult conversation, enjoy a slice of pie, and take a few long, well-deserved sips of wine, all without your kids flinging mashed potatoes at each other in a battle for the iPad. Sound too good to be true? Heed the advice of our hero experts, and your next holiday meal has the potential to be all that and more — without (and here’s the kicker) even a lick of mom guilt. Here, everything you need to know about creating the perfect kids table, no matter the age of your guests.

For the Littles

Ages 2-5

Décor: Balloons

kids table: balloons

This one’s so easy, says Katie Jayne Sprenkle, founder of Jayne Weddings, with offices in Pennsylvania, Illinois, and California: “Simply tie a brightly hued helium balloon to the back of each chair with colorful ribbon. Don’t tie it too tightly, though — they’ll each want to bring one home.”

Activity: Coloring

“Cover your table with butcher block paper, then attach a row of small galvanized buckets down the center, runner-style, with strong double-stick tape,” says Katherine Healy Brown, owner of Clover Events in Chicago. “Fill the buckets with crayons, stickers, Play-Doh, and little cookie cutters, and voilà — a table that doubles as an art center.”

Ice-Breaker: Musical Chairs

Sprenkle suggests this twist on the classic preschool game: “Before everyone sits down, play a fun song — anything from “Trolls” or “Moana” will be a hit with this crowd — and stop the music at a random spot,” she says. The first one in his or her seat gets a prize: a special crown to wear for the remainder of the meal.

Mocktail

Better Than a Shirley Temple

Courtesy of Belinda Chang, Chicago’s only James Beard Award-winning wine director

  • 2 cups POM juice
  • 1 1/3 cups agave nectar
  • 2 ounces pomegranate molasses
  • Citrus soda or sparkling water

Heat POM, agave syrup, and pomegranate molasses in a saucepan over low heat. Stir to dissolve all and reduce to a syrup-like texture. Add a splash to anything carbonated: citrus soda, club soda, their favorite flavor of La Croix — the sky’s the limit. Garnish with Swedish Fish skewers or Haribo cola gummies, or freeze gummy bears into ice cubes.

For the Middles

Ages 6-9

Décor: Pattern Play

kids table: decor

At this age, more is more, says Sprenkle. Choose a simple color palette that includes a few different shades (the bolder the better — think orange, hot pink, and chartreuse), then pick a few patterns that work those hues. “Layer a zig-zag tablecloth with polka-dot napkins, or pair a bright floral print with stripes — you can’t mess it up,” she says.

Activity: Picture Frame Decorating

kids table: picture frame

“Kids this age love taking their work home, so an easy art project is a great idea,” says Kertzner. Enter the wooden picture frame, available at craft stores for less than a couple bucks a pop. Simply set a frame at each place setting, then put out markers, glitter glue, and a bowl of jewels and sequins. At the end of the night, they can take their (now dry) frame home and put their favorite photo inside.

Ice-Breaker: Heads Up!

“Kids in this age group can really get their sillies out with this game — it’s the best for parties,” says Seri Kertzner, co-founder of Little Miss Party Planner in New York. Here’s how it works: Download the app at the iTunes or Google Play store (Heads Up! is for readers, while Heads Up! Kids replaces the words with pictures), then split the crowd into teams of two (give the oldest the responsibility of manning the phone). The game is simple: One player on each team tries to guess the word on the screen while their teammates provide clues, and every time a word is guessed correctly, that team scores a point. As for what the winners take home? That’s up to you.

Mocktail

Celebration Punch

Courtesy of Annabelle W., Chicago kid and crowd-pleasing mocktail master at large

  • 1/4 cup mashed blueberries
  • 2 ounces pineapple juice
  • 2 ounces passion fruit juice
  • 6 ounces strawberry lemonade
  • 4 ounces lemon La Croix

Fill tumblers halfway with ice and put a spoonful of mashed berries on top. Mix the juices and lemonade and pour over the berries. Top with La Croix. Garnish with an orange slice and two maraschino cherries on a cocktail toothpick, and add a mini drink umbrella because obviously!

For the Bigs

Ages 10+

Décor: All Grown Up

Kertzner suggests paying attention to every detail when setting the big kids’ table for family events. “They are always pretty taken by it,” she says. “I love when they take photos of a family meal and post on their social accounts.” Sprenkle added that it’s better to decorate the tweens’ and teens’ table the same as the adults’ table — sure, they’re sitting at the kids’ table, but the last thing a tween or teen wants is to feel babied.

Activity: Casino Night

After the initial Instagram photos have been shot and friends have been tagged, collect everyone’s phones and encourage them to kick it old school with a game of cards. UNO, Gin Rummy, or even Go Fish are crowd pleasers, says Sprenkle, especially if you pair them with a bowl of pennies or tokens that can be exchanged for prizes like movie tickets and iTunes gift cards. Phone? What phone?

Ice-Breaker: Q&A

The key with this group: Get them talking right off the bat. Sprenkle suggests making a list of fun questions that they can pass around the table and take turns answering. “It can be anything from their favorite emoji, food, or movie to the best trip they’ve ever taken,” she says. To take it to the next level, devise a game of “Would You Rather,” too: coffee or tea, beach or mountains, band or gym — you get the idea.

Mocktail

Small-Batch Basil Smash

Courtesy of Sunnie Schwartz, assistant manager at 7 Monks Taproom in Boyne City, Michigan

  • 2 basil leaves
  • 2 blood orange slices
  • 2 lime slices
  • 1 1/2 ounces brown sugar simple syrup (boil equal parts brown sugar and water)
  • 1 ounce Jack Rudy small-batch tonic

Muddle the leaves and slices, add the rest, shake with ice, and pour in a glass. Top off with lime seltzer or Sprite, and garnish with basil leaf and lime slice.

 

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